It’s a match!’ Now when do we have the STD talk?


Herpes is only a disease and it is curable. If you are diagnosed with herpes there is nothing to think that, your love life is over. You should know that there are many around you who don’t buy the stigma, and there are countless others like you. Hence, there is no reason you should be worried about your love life. Here are some tips that might help you.

Dating sites for people with herpes

There are many online sites, which help you find a like-minded partner. Herpes dating sites are a blessing, as you will not have to explain it to the other person. They understand what you are going through. It doesn’t matter what your age is or how long you have been suffering from it, you will find a partner willing to mingle in few mouse clicks! Another, plus of Herpes dating sites is that you don’t have to worry about your acceptance. It is important that you have privacy settings and so ensure the website you choose is a reputed one. It is also advisable that you use safe messaging system provided by the website and share your details only when you are comfortable with the other person. These sites are truly a ray of hope!

Be truthful

There is no harm in coming out clean. If you are true, it lowers your stress tremendously. If you are unsure, about your acceptance, still, it is advisable to be true, as it will save you from getting unpleasing surprises in future. Hence, it is worth giving a shot. If your partner is suffering from herpes, you must respect him/her. You need to be extra careful and use protection. In case, you suffer from the same disease, it is better to consult a doctor, before enjoying physical intimacy.

Online support group

Register with an online dating portal, upload your resume, give an attractive photo, and share your requirements. These days there is an online support group for everything and there is one for herpes as well. You can discuss the problems that you are facing in these groups. These groups will make you feel ok about yourself. These groups also help you understand that, suffering leads to pain. Hence, accept yourself and love yourself the way you are. There are many therapists also, on these groups who answer to your queries.